7 Ways to Get "Ahead" in Your Career

First, let's define what "getting ahead" really means.

We as women balance many priorities and goals in our work and lives, and the conventional definition of success no longer applies.

• After all, who cares if you have a big title and team if your family life is in shambles?

• If you're getting paid the big bucks but dread logging into your work e-mail or Slack each day, is that really a fulfilling life?

• So what if your college bestie is "doing better" professionally than you are right now? Yeah, it may sting, but comparing yourself to others can chip away at your self-esteem and keep you from focusing on YOUR goals.

So, the first step in success is defining what it means to you, both short- and long-term.

I can say from first-hand experience that I sometimes made decisions based just on money, prestige, and peer pressure. I regret some of them, but I'm still learning and can now share my perspectives with you.

1. Success takes focus and tenacity. Again, the most important step is defining what that means to you. The definition may change, depending on life stage, but do the work to keep your eye on the prize (whatever that may be).

2. Personal branding is essential today. Prospective and current employers are always checking you out online and your public persona should be consistent with your image and goals. Keep deeply personal stuff personal when you're job-hunting. A fine line exists between transparency and TMI. Communicate your wins without being "braggy." Fine-tune your pitching and presentation skills. The impressions you make can be lasting.

3. Build the right relationships. Company politics can be exhausting, but knowing who the "power players" and decision-makers are in your industry can help you find a role, build your reputation in your category, and ask for help when you need it. Be sure to take other women with you as you "climb the ladder" and get opportunities. Having a loyal community is critical as you build your career.

4. Be accountable and easy to work with. That's not to say that you should be everyone's doormat. But if you say you're going to deliver something, do it on time and well. Build your active listening skills.

5. Seek outside help. Mentors, qualified business coaches, and other advisors have a lot to offer. Listen and learn. (Make sure your advisors are the right "match" and have relevant experience. Pinpoint role models and connect with them on LinkedIn or at live events. Organizations like SOS can be great resources.

6. Be patient. Achieving big goals can take a while. Take baby steps. Beware of overpromising or overextending yourself (see #4). Don't beat yourself up when you face glitches or get overlooked for an opportunity.

7. Re-evaluate. Career development is not a "one and done" exercise. Knowing what you need at work can change throughout your life. You need to get your head on straight before you get ahead!

   
   

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